[Wedding] Nancy & Rick – The Essex House in Manhattan, NY

January 2014 will go down in history as one of the coldest months the East Coast had ever experienced in over 116 years. Fortunately the four of us (me, Karis, Nancy and Rick) had the good sense of leaving the frozen tundras of Central Park for the relative warmth of Miami two weeks before their wedding (the former for business, the latter for pleasure). While 76° was freezing cold by Miami standards, we were simply elated that we didn’t have to suffer the brunt of Winter Storm Hercules (or its twin brother Ion, who arrived shortly thereafter). It wasn’t until that following Sunday when reality finally set in: the four of us were stranded in Miami, with NO FLIGHTS BACK TO NYC FOR THE VERY FORESEEABLE FUTURE. All the airports from Boston to Philadelphia had effectively shut down for the week, with no recourse for the hundreds of thousands of stranded passengers like us who needed to be in NYC for some very important matters (a wedding, to be exact!)

While unveiling my legendary zen-like composure, I reassured everyone that there was no reason to panic. We calmly researched our alternatives, and this was what we came up with:

Train option: $1500…PER PERSON, getting us into the city within 48 hours.
Car rental option: $900, getting us into the city within 24-36 hours with non-stop driving.

We were I was seriously considering driving the full length of the trip between Miami and NYC. So we slept on it…for about 12 hours. Nancy and Rick then called the following morning, and generously offered to split the driving time and cost of the car rental. After all, we had a wedding to plan/shoot, people! But the prospect of being stranded somewhere along the Southern Atlantic was too credible a risk, due to the massive amount of snow we were getting. As it turned out, we made the right call: our friendly southern neighbors aren’t exactly well-suited for these kinds of driving conditions :). While this would’ve made for the most AWESOME STORY EVER in the history of client-wedding photographer adventures, we needed to make sure these two stranded lovebirds didn’t hate us two weeks before their wedding day. I mean seriously, can you imagine being stuck in a car with me for 36 hours?

Long story short, Karis & I decided to wait out the storm while Nancy & Rick decided to brave the elements and made the hellacious drive back up to the Big Apple. And through some divine providence (and a bit of elbow grease, charm and persistence), flights magically opened up for us mid-week and we were able get back home to NYC early. Best of all, none of us had to drive through this crazy weather!

Two weeks later, Nancy and Rick held their wedding at the historical Essex House, located on the southern tip of Central Park. Karis and I were also there, with bells on and with plenty of time to spare.

View of Central park from the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Essex house and wedding ring shot. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding shoes by the window at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Cufflink shot at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's wedding prep at the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride writes a card for her groom at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Card exchange at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Card exchange at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Cufflink shot at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom portrait inside the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride portrait inside the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride's prep at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.First look at Central Park in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait in Central Park. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait in Central Park. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bridal party portraits at the Essex House and Central Park. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bridal party portraits at the Essex House and Central Park. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait in Central Park. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait inside the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait inside the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom portrait inside the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride walks down the aisle with her father during her wedding ceremony at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Groom watches his bride come down the aisle during their wedding ceremony at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding ceremony at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Bride and groom kiss during their wedding ceremony at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding cake and centerpieces at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding place settings at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Cocktail hour at the Essex House. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.First dances during a wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Toasts during a wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Toasts during a wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Father of the groom waits before the ceremony at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Guests dance during a wedding reception at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.Ben and Karis Lau with their brides and grooms at the Essex House in NYC. Captured by NYC wedding photographer Ben Lau.

Venue: The Essex house Hotel // Dress: Reem Acra // Tux: Giorgio Armani // DJ : Reg West // Hair: Tarek Makki //Flowers: Spitz and Peck // Cinematography: New Milfords Productions // Bridesmaid’s dresses: Vera Wang // Jazz band: Emiko Band

Worried about looking awkward in your wedding photos?

Download my FREE posing guide today!

*all fields required

We hear the coffee's pretty good here :)

Northern NJ, NYC documentary Wedding Photographer, Educator & All-Around Nice Guy

#benlauphoto #momentsovermountains #loveislove

Follow me on the gram'